Friday, July 17, 2009

Relationships....

relationship....a very complex thing....can be of different types.....as immortal as that of a child with its parents, as natural as the one with your friends, as topsy-turvy as that in a marriage, or as fragile as that between 2 people in an "open" relationship....
this is an interesting topic, these open relationships...u r not answerable to any1, not even 2 the person that u r having the relationship with....why does not every1 choose to be in an open relationship then if it is so convenient?...why do people still opt for commitment in a relationship, years of togetherness, or for that matter marriage?.....is it that the bindings make them feel secure?....but being an independent person why would u be asking for security all the time?... is it that in his heart of hearts every1 is so insecure as to want to be cocooned by the feeling of being loved, needed and wanted all the time?....these r questions I've asked myself and found no definite answer to...so now I'm asking my readers 2 help me out.....
why do relationships break then?...is it that people grow out of this need for security all of a sudden or they get bored of it?...some of my friends would choose the latter, I know...but is there not anyway to break the thaw in those frozen reltionships?...one should at least give it a try....but still if everything fails people should break up in a civil manner...without calling each other names....

I hope this is not sounding as sermonising....

2 comments:

  1. Hmm... I think you will get the answer from my post WHY DO WE LOVE AND WHY DO WE BREAKUP.....

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  2. Liked your post. These are questions that remain unresolved but we keep searching for an answer. To me we are inheriting an inherent dilemma of SECURITY and FREEDOM. See some of my posts.. have given the links... these speaks about relational issues through pun filled cases...

    thanks

    http://sumanparole.blogspot.com/2010/03/from-bread-to-being-mcdonaldization.html

    http://sumanparole.blogspot.com/2010/04/living-with-and-living-without.html

    http://sumanparole.blogspot.com/2010/03/shrove-corpse-and-letting-go.html

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